MONTH 2 DAY 3: WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS DOESN'T DEFINE YOU

Keith Gatiramu
Feb 8
2 min read

In a world that often measures happiness by relationship status, it’s easy to feel pressured to be in a relationship or to follow a certain timeline. However, true happiness comes from embracing your current status, whether single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between and finding fulfillment within yourself.

Why Your Relationship Status Doesn’t Define You

Society often makes us believe that being in a relationship equals success, while being single means something is missing. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Your value isn’t tied to whether or not you’re dating someone; it’s in who you are as a person. Happiness starts from within, and a relationship, when the time is right should only add to your already full life.

The Joy of Being Single

If you’re single, this is your time to focus on self-growth, personal goals, and the things that make you happy. Being single allows you the freedom to explore new hobbies, travel, and build strong friendships. It’s also a great opportunity to deepen your relationship with yourself, understanding your desires, values, and what truly makes you feel fulfilled.

Finding Happiness in a Relationship

If you’re in a relationship, happiness doesn’t just come from having a partner—it comes from a healthy, supportive, and loving dynamic. A relationship should be a space where you can grow individually and together. The key is ensuring that your happiness isn’t solely dependent on your partner but rather complemented by them.

Navigating the In-Between Stages

Sometimes, you may be in an undefined stage—getting over a breakup, seeing someone casually, or figuring things out. These moments can be confusing, but they also provide clarity. Use this time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and what fulfills you most.

How to Embrace Your Current Status

Practice Gratitude – Focus on the positives of where you are in life right now.
Invest in Yourself – Take up a hobby, learn a skill, or work on personal development.
Surround Yourself with Love – Friends, family, and self-love are just as important as romantic love.
Let Go of Societal Pressure – Your journey is unique, and there’s no ‘right’ timeline to follow.
Stay Open to the Future – Be content where you are while remaining open to new possibilities.

Final Thoughts

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or in an undefined phase, the most important thing is to be happy and at peace with yourself. Your relationship status doesn’t define your worth, your happiness, growth, and fulfillment do. Celebrate where you are now, and trust that everything will fall into place in its own time.

Embrace your journey, love yourself, and enjoy the moment!